Wednesday, February 22, 2012

Happy Days

We've been having a lot of fun around here lately, just enjoying life with little girls.  On days that Travis goes to work but I don't, I usually open my eyes to the face of a beautiful girl or two asking to snuggle with me in my bed.  They climb in with blankets and stuffed animals and snuggle with me until Travis leaves for work.  Then we eat breakfast, where Audrey eats an unfathomable amount of oatmeal and raisins, and finishes off the PBJ crusts from the sandwich that Emily makes, all on her own. It's a pretty awesome way to start off the day.  Emily and I generally get a good solid chunk of time to snuggle together in the afternoon, and it's really fun to read with her and point out words that she knows.  She WORKS hard, though, in her play, writing her favorite letters and words, counting things, thinking hard all the time.  She's really hard to keep a step ahead of.  I watched Audrey count out three pieces of meat tonight at dinner, and then promptly drop them on the floor.  Exasperating, except, what 2YO can count that well?

This may seem like a little, nitpicky thing, but I can see it growing into something that makes my life a lot easier as the girls grow older.  They're starting to actually talk nicely to each other in order to resolve conflicts!!  In one day, I saw each girl resolve something by settling down and asking the other nicely for whatever it was the other had stolen.  It is so satisfying to see that all that endless yammering I do about using words and whatnot are actually starting to show results!

I've already started in with Braxton-Hicks contractions.  Baby is really lively at different points of the day, and Emily especially loves to poke my belly and feel her sister wiggling back at her.  She has all kinds of ideas about what Baby is thinking or feeling, and it's fun to hear her verbalize all those thoughts.  I'm feeling pretty slow and lazy these days, and consuming just a ridiculous amount of food.  I've decided that I'm not going to really care about weight gain so much, this time around, although I'm pretty much on track with what I did with my other two pregnancies.  It'll be much more satisfying to watch what I eat when I can exercise, and actually feel good about my figure instead of just making it less awful.  I'm a blimp - so what??

And apparently it's the way to be. Yesterday, I heard of two more co-workers who are expecting this summer/fall, to go along with two others that I talk with often and several others who I know in passing.  We're reproducing like crazy. :)

I spent about an hour this afternoon calling around to other in-home childcare providers, and it is really, really hard to find people.  I thought the kicker would be finding someone who takes part-time kids and has openings, but I can't even get people to answer the phone!  And a lot of people are either in little, icky-looking houses (according to google maps) or townhouses.  So do I put up with the dogs and naptime issues where we're at, or risk switching??  I've got two potential places to check out, so I hope one of them turns out to be perfect.  Otherwise, I guess I'll wait until next fall and try calling around again.

Emily has a date with both of her grandmas this weekend.  I got them tickets to the Clifford musical show that's at the Civic Center downtown, as gifts for the birthdays they both had in the past week.  I figured, what could be better than spending time with my sweet Emily, right?  :)  She's pretty excited about it, and I think they'll have a pretty good time together.

Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Whoa, time to update this!

Yeah, it's been a few weeks, huh?  It seems like we've been busy, but, gosh, doing what?  Just our family routine, I guess.

Yesterday, I spent the day at work presenting a class to other user experience designers at Deere and the company we contract with.  It was nice that I had teamed up with two other people to do the class, because we kind of pushed each other to get the class done and well-prepared.  It was kind of crazy getting it all ready and I was a bit stressed by it, but it went really, really well and I'm SO happy to be done with it!  I'm not at all comfortable presenting anything to any size group of people, even though I think I am a pretty good teacher, as long as I'm not outnumbered, I guess. :)  Anyway, now that that's done, I'm actually done with two out of 3 of my year-long goals at work! I can't even remember what the third goal was supposed to be... guess it's time to go on maternity leave, right? ha!

And the other cool thing about work is that somehow I have gotten noticed, and I am being promoted to a senior position!  It's not final or official yet, but it's gotten approvals from all the levels of management it needs, and I just need to pass a review by a group that recently formed to review people pursuing a "knowledge path" at Deere.  That's me, all knowledge!  I'm pretty excited, and only a little bit intimidated.  Kinda cool!

So, enough about me.  My little beauties have been keeping me very busy on my days at home, too.  Audrey has mastered the whole alphabet and is working on lower-case letters.  She can count to 5, which is pretty cool.  Emily is starting to think about stringing together letters into words.  If she knows what the words are, like a book's title or similar, I can ask her to point to which word is which, and she does pretty well at using the letters for clues, and not just guessing.  It seems to be a good exercise for learning the whole left-to-right concept, which is funny to think that it must be learned!  Audrey is as likely to spell out words backwards as forwards, but Emily is pretty reliable with reading left-to-right, and most of the time writing that way too.  I guess since there are right-to-left languages, it's not surprising that it's not an innate thing to know.

Emily is pretty excited about preschool, and I'm hoping she is still feeling that way 6 months from now!  That may as well be an eternity for her, you know, and she really doesn't get as much out of her daycare setting as she needs.  I'm getting more and more dissatisfied with our current daycare setup, and I figure I'll start looking for something different this summer.  There's just too many dogs, not enough outside activities, and not enough stimulation for Emily.  They have quiet-time with lights out from about noon until 4:00.  It's no wonder that Audrey still needs a pull-up for naptime there, if they're thinking she needs to be lying on her cot for the majority of that time; she's not going to buck the trend to get up to go potty.  And they smell like dog!!  ugh.  My sweet little beauties always smell so BAD when i get home from work.  I want to hug them and snuggle them when I walk in the door and then, YUCK.  I hope it's a pregnancy-nose thing, and that it'll get better when they can open the windows there to air it out, but, I dunno.  There's gotta be something better, right??  Their sitter has been marveling at what my girls know, and how Emily's going to be ridiculously ready for preschool, so it's nice that she's on board with my girls' capabilities.  But, shouldn't any teacher or sitter?  You don't have to spend much time with them before Emily will start talking like a book and you know there's something special there.

Funny Emily story along those lines:  The other night, while she was in the bathroom getting ready to brush her teeth, her foot slipped off the edge of the stepstool and she bonked her elbow and her ribs against the bathroom countertop.  Before she could even cry, she blurted out, "I was not expecting that!!!"  and then the tears came.  It was so funny that it was really hard to console her without laughing - poor girl! Because really, who says that???  Okay I probably do.  But, what 4YO says that? :) 

As for Baby, she is kicking and thrashing about these days.  I know that I'm less in-tune with this pregnancy than the other two, but she is doing her best to not let me forget about her!  I am feeling enormous these days, but really I'm not that big.  My weight is exactly the same at this point as it was in my previous two pregnancies.  I passed my glucose test last week, so even though it would probably be healthier for me to cut out the ridiculous amount of sugar that I eat, I'm not being forced to so I probably won't!  But she is so incredibly jumpy, especially in the evenings and as I am going to bed.  I know I should be feeling bittersweet about this novel sensation that I'll only get to experience for another 4 months, but it's getting to be exhausting.  She has a lot of growing to do before she arrives in May... oof!!!

And no, we still have no name for her yet.  It's probably going to be another "game-day" decision.  I just hope we come up with something as lovely as we did for her sisters!